I'm pretty sure he had no idea of how insulting he was being--in fact, I'm sure he thought he was being complimentary (he kept insisting that as an attractive woman at a con, I must really enjoy the attention I got... which, sigh.)
I did one J2 Big Bang AU that was all about cooking--I had an extra post that was just the recipes for the stuff I had them making. It took months before I stopped tagging random posts that I thought might fit their cooking styles.
The real irony is that everyone thinks I'm the one who has to go-go-go (because I'm the one who plans everything) but I am more than happy to lay by a pool and read. He just isn't a sit-down type, so off we go. I usually need a vacation from my vacation, but I otherwise would never have ziplined the cloud forest in Costa Rica or walked the Brooklyn Bridge, so there are at least a few upsides. ;D
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I did one J2 Big Bang AU that was all about cooking--I had an extra post that was just the recipes for the stuff I had them making. It took months before I stopped tagging random posts that I thought might fit their cooking styles.
The real irony is that everyone thinks I'm the one who has to go-go-go (because I'm the one who plans everything) but I am more than happy to lay by a pool and read. He just isn't a sit-down type, so off we go. I usually need a vacation from my vacation, but I otherwise would never have ziplined the cloud forest in Costa Rica or walked the Brooklyn Bridge, so there are at least a few upsides. ;D