topaz119: (cartoon!me)
Too much stuff has been going on; every time I try to sit down and sum it all up, I don't even know where to start.

So, instead, a meme, as seen randomly on ye olde DW circle --

What is the first TV show you remember watching?

Dark Shadows, the original, creepy, gothic cheese-fest. I was 5? I hid behind the couch b/c I wasn't allowed to watch but I was just sucked into the melodrama.

What is the first “grown up” TV show you watched?

See above, lol

Have you ever been in a wedding bridal party? What was your role? What did your outfit look like that you wore for the day?

Soooooo many, hah. (At least a half-dozen, not counting my own. At various moves, I've handed off a burgundy off-the-shoulder long dress (maid of honor), a turquoise tea-length with an iridescent chiffon overlay (bridesmaid and general errand runner), a pastel flowered tea length with a portrait collar (bridesmaid and keeper of the good champagne), and a black, fitted strapless sheath with sheer illusion long sleeves (from when Oldest was a ring-bearer and I was there to keep the peace.) But my first was THE BEST EVER. When I was 11 or 12, one of my younger aunts got married in the most giant, OTT wedding ever and I was a junior bridesmaid (along with a sister of the groom. My brother and the groom's younger brother were altar boys, though there were 3 priests also involved in the ceremony, so the kids just sat around in their robes.) It was the 1970s; the girls (bridesmaids, jr bridesmaids, flower girls and maids of honor (yes, 2) wore aqua (polyester) long gowns with ruffles criss-crossing our bosoms. The groomsmen wore cut-velvet dinner jackets, with swirly patterns cut into them and aqua ruffled shirts. The mothers wore gowns that were a sort of orange-y melon satin and a fuschia chiffon, while the fathers (two 50ish Polish and Italian immigrant steelworkers) rocked the fuck out of the same godawful dinner jackets with peach and pink ruffled shirts, to match their wives. There were 28 people in the bridal party (not counting the bride and groom), we made it through a High Mass with a full choir and at least 4 soloists singing every response and the aforementioned 3 priests (the parish priest, the priest who ran the volunteer group my aunt worked with and the groom's family priest) all having to speak. The reception was held at the Polish Falcon Hall where the cake was 5 layers with a (working) water fountain in the middle and 5 or 6 heart-shaped little sub-cakes connected by arched bridges to the main cake with the fountain and tiers AND at some point during a very vigorous polka, someone went careening into the cake table, knocking it down, and there was a small explosion as the water from the fountain shorted out the motor that was running the pump.

It was at this point that I swore there would not be an open bar at my own wedding, that I was not paying for my genial alcoholic family to go out and get smashed, and though it was nearly 20 years later, reader, there was not.

What is your ethnic background that you’re aware of?

Italian (Calabria) on my mother's side; Polish-Russian (from the part of Poland that always got the Russian invasions so who knows exactly who was what) on my father's. (I will tell you, though, that I looked up at one point during the second season of The Witcher as Vesomir started talking and said (to BabyBoy) words to the effect of holy shit, that's your grandfather. He even had the same mustache for a while, oy.

What was the last hotel you stayed in and where? Did you like it?

Well, we stayed at Old Key West and the Beach Club the last few times we went to Disney World, but those are technically condos, so I dunno if they count? We spent a couple of nights at the Swan at WDW before we moved over to the Beach Club in October. I mean, we do this almost every year, so yes, I do like them but that's kind of a given. The last hotel that *wasn't* attached to WDW was the Ritz Carlton Amelia Island, because I needed to use some free-night certificates before they expired and that was the nicest hotel within driving distance. It was beautiful and very upscale (I mean, it was a Ritz, so, yeah) and our room had a great ocean view, but if I go there again, I might be tempted to go with one of the rooms that don't have a balcony but have a patio with a fire table on it. I don't know, though--it really was a fabulous view.
topaz119: (treelights)
hi, hi, ducking in before the complete holiday madness hits to wish you all a lovely winter holiday of your choice (belated but no less heartfelt for Hannukah and Solstice.)

I finished up work yesterday (though it's really less 'finished' and more 'made myself a list and closed the laptop') and will not go back until January 4. I'm debating deleting Slack off my phone, though we're pretty much closed up for the next fortnight so it should be quiet. (I hate having to reconfigure things when I reinstall.)

Today, I need to excavate the giant pile of shipping boxes and padded envelopes and make sure everything I ordered did indeed come in so that I can make any emergency adjustments tomorrow, if necessary. If I don't have to do anything, I might bake tomorrow, at least some candy cane brownies or sugar cookies that I can smother in sugar sprinkles.

Right now, I'm trying to figure out what food I have and what I need--I've already gone by Trader Joe's and Whole Foods for fun stuff (why yes, I did hunt down the last of the Talenti Peppermint Bark gelato across 5 different WF, why do you ask?) I think I have too much food, but all the kids are home and I'm happy to feed them their favorites without resorting to UberEasts or DoorDash so here I am with a jam-packed fridge and two freezers.

Fannishly speaking, I started watching S2 of The Witcher (I think we got to 2 eps) and we watched Tick, Tick, Boom last night (which, if no one has told you, the scene in the diner has every single Broadway legend you can think of in it. I made the kids stop so I could figure everyone out. They were less impressed.) And now I kinda want to go re-watch Rent. I'm still only on Ep 3 of Hawkeye, still haven't seen Shang Chi, and am contemplating going to see Spidey on Monday morning, when hopefully everyone will be other places. (We all finally got our boosters & I got a whole new batch of KN95 masks, I might risk it in the theater. I might also buy extra seats so we have a buffer around us. We’ll see.)

Bookwise, I'm in the middle of my annual re-listen to The Twelve Clues of Christmas, which is one of Rhys Bowen's Her Royal Spyness cozy mysteries, so lots of dead bodies with bonus pre-WWII English country Christmas setting. Next is possibly Rosamunde Pilcher's Winter Solstice--no bodies, just minor melodramas in the Scottish countryside, also at Christmas. I've lost count of how many times I've read/listened to them, but listening keeps me company while I run around and try to get things pulled together for the holidays.

Ok, I have shoved lunch at everyone & the kids have headed out to shop, so I am going to start digging through the aforementioned pile of presents & see what’s what.

Oh! I posted another chapter this morning, so my Darcy/Bucky post-WV/TFATWS fic is up over 50K words (and as I had suspected previously, the slow burn blew up so it’s rated Explicit now, waiting in the eye of the storm.

Ok, now I really am going to go deal with holiday stuff. Have a good day/night/morning!
topaz119: (hanging on)
::waves::

The weekend was reasonably decent--we started off with an outdoor office hang at my director's house on Friday morning. It was good to see people IRL and she (director) is a raging extrovert who loved to throw parties in the pre-C19 times so she hauled out all kinds of yard games and set up a sno-cone maker and laid in a supply of individually packaged snacks and treats, so that was fun. Also, the weather (the heat dome?) broke so we weren't being roasted by the sun, which made everything much more pleasant.

The rest of the weekend was mostly just chill. L came down and we walked a couple of miles with my Berserker!Dog and I watched a couple more episodes of Mando S2 (spoilers through 2.03 )

And here, have a couple of links:

  • In the Before times (2019) Anne Helen Petersen wrote about millennials and burnout and I somehow followed that to her newsletter, Culture Study, which has given me lots to think of over the last year and I would recommend it highly. And then last week, while I felt like I was walking through slowly hardening cement, she published You're Still Exhausted, and it was exactly what I needed to read. It might help you, too?

  • In much less fraught linkage, it is apparently #NationalBookLoversDay, and so NASA has linked to their (free) e-book archive. Might I recommend Earth at Night or Through the Eyes of Cassini?

    Have a good week, y'all!
  • topaz119: (hanging on)
    So, my stress coach** (I can't believe I just typed that, but I do have have this nice lady I talk to once a month or so) has encouraged me to keep a fun-do list.

    Well.

    She thought it could be good to have a list of things I find enjoyable so I can just pick one instead of obsessively playing Drop 7 for an hour after I close my work laptop; I (of course) turned it into a daily checklist in Habitica, but y'know, what else was I going to do?

    So I'm checking off things like Read 30 min and Netflix 30 min and I don't know that I'm any less stressed, but I have managed to finally finish my rewatch of Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries and actually get through all of Loki, so... yay me?

    Phryne and Jack and their found family continue to delight me even on the third or fourth time through (and this time, I really had to work for it b/c I could only get 5 episodes/month through the library.) I wish the movie had been better, but I will content myself with the lovely fic writers of the fandom.

    random thoughts on Loki )

    Next on my list is S2 of The Mandalorian, so I return to my first fandom in my time of need. Who knew it was still going to be here to distract me 40+ years after it first enthralled me?


    **Therapy has been suggested, but I know why I'm stressed and it's all out of my control, so talking to a therapist about CBT isn't really going to do much. With the coach, we just ID things that make the best use of free time for me and bang it into my head that sleep and nutrition and exercise are really not negotiable and leave it at that. (also, in case you haven't guessed, writing for fun is one of those things, so here I am.)
    topaz119: (Default)
    In something of a surprise, BabyBoy & I are watching Yuri!!! on Ice together -- he's seen it already but is patiently waiting until I have the mental bandwidth to deal with subtitles. We're 3? 4? episodes in and it is as lovely as everyone has said. I'm also semi-spoiled for the big reveal but it's fine; I'm enjoying all of it regardless. :D

    I finally finished Star Wars: Rebels, which I think has the most coherent arc & execution of any SW-related project I've seen. And then, we were going to get into the whole Siege of Mandalor arc on Clone Wars, but life got a little complicated, so they took a side-step and showed me the one episode with Obi Wan and Satine and I'm counting my blessings they did not film me as I watched because I was cackling from about 90 seconds in. Count me among the Obi Wan/Satine 'shippers, for real. Now I need to go back in for Mando S2, and I'll possibly catch up on the Siege episodes. Clone Wars just doesn't hold my attention but I like the general arc of the story, so I'm going to just fill in around the edges.

    I finally watched the most recent Little Women, which I both loved and had great ambivalence about. cutting even though it's been nearly 2 years since the release )

    I'm almost through with a full rewatch of Miss Fisher's Murder Mysteries -- If anything, I'm surprised how much I'm still enjoying it. I'd almost expected to lose interest after a few episodes, but I'm only a couple from the end of the 3rd season and happily watching along (I'm watching through a library add-on so I only get a few episodes each month, but that's fine.)


    I also just rewatched The Big Chill, which I thought held up well over the years, but wow, the drugs were ... a lot. I was there during that era, so I'm not saying it's wrong, but looking at it now, yeah, a LOT.

    At some point, I swear I'm going to watch Shadow and Bone, but I should probably get on with Mando and Loki, so those are on deck.

    In personal news, work continues to be both mad ricochets and thoughtful support, so I guess I'm happy about the support and wish the actual project work might smooth out in time. (The whole industry is just so bad for my tendency to procrastinate--I *know* there's a better than even chance that whatever date they're giving me will slip, so it encourages my bad habits about just not jumping in and doing things, because it never fails that when I do, it changes later down the line, so I'm better off just waiting and doing it all in a power rush at the end, because it'll be that rush anyway.) Ah, well, only a couple more years and the R-word becomes viable.

    For fun things, I started posting the latest thing I've been noodling on, if only to get the early parts out of my head and let my brain focus on the rest of the story, so the first chapter of waiting in the eye of the storm, a post-Wandavision/mid-TFATWS Darcy/Bucky is out in the world.
    topaz119: (somanybooks)
    Dear lord, they asked me to mentor someone at the office. Like, an official relationship where we met monthly and all. I may have to consult with my brother, who does this on a regular basis, just to get some idea of what to do. (I mean, normally, I'm the thorn in people's side, always sitting over in the corner where they shove me and deflating their pretensions to clear writing skills, not being asked to share expertise. I need to remember this for when I do the year-end meme and it asks me for something I've never done before.)

    In other news, I am so close to finishing off the Steve/Darcy MCU fic I've been playing with over the last few months, soooo close. Last 2k words. HEA. Debating between straight-up smut/fade-to-black. Y'know, the important stuff. cutting for character-related spoilers in the MCU )

    ...and books

    finished
    A Civil Campaign, Lois McMaster Bujold, audiobook == I'm so glad I beat down my internal completest freak and just skipped over all of the many books between the ones I've read (SoH, B, TWA) and just went ahead and listened to this one. I definitely enjoyed it and I realize this book is 20+ years old, but this was such a delightful reveal that I don't want to ruin it for others ) Somewhat surprisingly, my favorite character might actually have been Gregor, so I'm guessing I'll be on an AO3 hunt for a bit.

    reading now
    The only thing I started new was Laziness Does Not Exist, Devon Price, which I think I gleaned from a podcast last month. Just now starting so no opinion as of yet.

    Otherwise, I'm still in with Deal with the Devil, Because Internet, and Obi Wan and Anakin.

    next
    Possibly Captain Vorpatril's Alliance...
    topaz119: (treelights)
    covid update )

    holiday update )

    I'm off this whole week (the office closed down and I am not so much as even looking at my laptop) and so have had time to watch a few things. For one, I ended up binging Bridgerton, which is (I hope) not a surprise to anyone. The non-spoilery stuff is that the casting and the set design and costuming and music is all phenomenal. I know some people find the orchestral adaptations of Ariana Grande, etc, to be off-putting, but I love the energy it brings to the scenes. You put on period music and everybody yawns, but this brings out the whole clubbing/meat market aspect of the parties and balls and fetes without a single word.

    cutting for spoilery discussion, including Lady Whistledown stuff, please don't click if you don't know b/c the reveal is sublime )

    Okay, I am going to see if I can make a full-tilt Milk Bar Funfetti cake for L's birthday, starting tomorrow, wish me luck! (If I manage to pull it all together, I will definitely take pictures.) Have a good rest of the halfway-out-of-time week before the new year!
    topaz119: (it was a dark and stormy night)
    ISTG, I just wanted to write a simple Joe/Nicky PWP. Possibly with a few tasteful curtains somewhere on the Mediterranean. My brain is currently 5000 words into an exploration of varying anger management techniques. No sex in sight. And they're still in London.

    ::sighs::

    In other random media news, Oldest and I watched Enola Holmes, which we enjoyed greatly. a few spoilery notes )
    topaz119: (hearts)
    So, I watched The Old Guard over the weekend, and then watched it again last night, so I guess it's safe to say I liked it.

    Non-spoilery: it's a comic book adaptation, with all the good and bad that entails, but it is a very well-cast adaptation and the production values are excellent. I half-watched Highlander back in the day, with which this shares the immortal warrior trope, but the best way I can express how much better this all looks is to compare it to how watching New!Who felt after decades of no-budget original Dr. Who. Or, really, like that first X-Men movie against all the cartoon-y Superman/Batman movies of the 70s/80s. Just--wow, look at that: look at all the money onscreen taking the source material seriously, not like a joke.

    Also, omg, the found family feels, happysigh.

    further, spoilery thoughts with a judicious sprinkling of capslock and exclamation points and offers of cookies )

    Anyway, yeah, I had fun with it. I'm diving into fic now & will hopefully be back with links. Love you all, stay safe, wear a mask, be excellent to each other. ♥
    topaz119: Photo of a button with Lin-Manuel Miranda's 2017 Tony acceptance speech and the Hamilton star logo (love is love)
    ugh, it's already been a morning and it's barely past 7, which is what happens when you wake up at 4:15 and the brain weasels start running full tilt.

    (It's fine; it's just the dealing-with-money demons that I usually wrangle by automating everything I possibly can so I don't actually have to deal with them very often. Everything's in flux right now, though, so I have to think about it all and yeah, I still hate sorting through the many 'uncomfortable feelings' (to quote one of my past therapists) it drags up.)

    In less fraught topics, when I did my last round-up of what I'd been watching, I forgot that BabyBoy bounced off a few walls to get me to watch Knives Out with him, which we both really had fun with (though I made him watch youtube clips of Don Johnson in his Miami Vice glory days once we were through. And then I compounded the horror by making sure he knew the actress from 50SoG was his daughter. Evil!Mom FTW?)

    I had some minor quibbles with a few of the narrative devices upon which the plot balanced on (which I hate to talk about b/c, really, just watching it all unfold was so much fun), and it took my brain entirely too long to cognitively align with James Bond and a Southern accent, but I liked it well enough to go hunting for fic during that week's awake-before-five-a.m. sessions, of which, I think I can link to Knives In for your post-murder reading needs.)

    We also watched Hamilton, and for those whom I've met in the last few years and who missed my slight crise de nerfs after Mom passed away and very unlike-me spending-of-money (see above, re: demons), I ended up with tickets to the last night of the OBC with my just-turned-16-year-old theater geek of a kid. I bought the tickets in February, for a random weekend in July that just turned out to be the big night, originally because I was trying to thread the needle on D's multi-season baseball commitments (which ended up not happening, because he literally could not clear his schedule until after I'd already bought plane tickets and changing them (or adding another) became a 4-figure proposition.) I talked about it here (with random pictures) and here (restaurants).

    Watching the filmed version was interesting, but the one thing that it really confirmed was that yes, Daveed Diggs really *was* that magnetic, because one of my crystalline memories of the actual performance was how he *crackled* off the stage (and we were in the upper balcony, so it's not like we were 50 feet away from him.) I can remember telling a friend that him swanning down that staircase as Jefferson after nearly jumping off the stage as Lafayette was riveting, like I could barely drag my eyes away from him to see what everyone else was doing.

    So, I've been trying to write this since 7 this morning, so I'm just going to stop here and maybe come back with books tomorrow. ::crosses fingers:: Stay safe!
    topaz119: (wdw)
    I swear I thought I was going to update more often, but obviously that hasn't happened. Let's just say the frenetic/tedious cycles of this pandemic continue on and leave it at that for RL here at the HoB.

    I posted on Monday with the whole, giant omgFINISHED Star Trek: Discovery Pike/Tilly fic, which is basically where nearly all of my discretionary time has gone, which has been a good focus for my doomscrolling brain during all of this ::gestures at the world:: But now, I'm in that sort of hangover stage where my brain still goes off with what could happen next. And I could break that by throwing myself into some other media (not writing) but I'm not quite ready to let go of them. So, possibly I'll rewatch my favorite episodes from S2 (because of course I picked characters who are basically never going to interact again) and wallow a little.

    On a less ridiculous note, the last time I talked about anything media-related, I'd just finished The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and since then, I've watched all of Fleabag and ended up liking it both more than I expected and in a more wholesome(?), less cynical way. I mean, I was prepared to watch a show where everyone was just awful (but funny), but instead found myself wanting to take care of everyone (except for Godmother, ugh, but *chef's kiss* to Olivia Colman for that performance.)

    I'm also watching/re-watching Merlin, which was one of those shows I watched via osmosis and fic, catching an episode here or there and mostly just enjoying the fabulous fandom writers. ISTG, I think the slash writers actually toned down the Merlin/Arthur, at least from my divided attention as I'm watching while I fight with this Nancy Drew jigsaw puzzle, which I'm fairly certain I found through someone on my DW circle, so thank you for that. (It's the editions I grew up reading, nostalgia ftw.)

    I also have this vintage Disney buttons puzzle waiting for if I ever finish Nancy and I'm waiting for the frenzy around this Haunted Mansion set to calm down so I can snag one at a reasonable price. (They sold out on property in an hour and the ebay sharks are asking crazy prices.)

    And, no, I've never been much of a puzzle builder, but it's kind of soothing to sit around and match colors and shapes for an hour or two. It's also good for big Zoom calls where I don't have to be on video and don't have to participate, only listen. Strange times, desperate measures, you all know how that goes.

    I, um, also might have ordered a purple-instagram-wall mask to complete my pandemic shopping spree, but it hasn't gotten here yet so I can't report on its usefullness.

    Okay, I really have to go to bed, as D has a doctor's appt tomorrow morning that's going to require us to don full PPE and I have a feeling I'm going to need all the sleep I can get for that. I hope you're all doing as well as can be expected in this strange time. *kisses*
    topaz119: (Partners)
    Good morning, hello from the long weekend here in the States, for which I am incredibly thankful. So far, I’ve gotten through paperwork for several of D’s disability programs, spent a ridiculous amount of money and time acquiring food at Costco (packed, but everyone wearing masks) and Whole Foods (surprisingly near-empty, but only about 50-50 on the mask-wearing), managed to get all of said ridiculous amount of food stored appropriately (which necessitated a clearing out of the refrigerator and rearranging both freezers), wrote a bit on the conclusion to the Pike/Tilly fic and finished S3 of Mrs. Maisel (more below).

    Ok, ok, before I start really babbling about inconsequential things, I have to tell you to go read [personal profile] destina’s H50 post-series-finale (do you) Love Me Still, which I had the great joy/pleasure/privilege to beta. It is a sublime Steve/Danny with strong supporting performances by Cath and Kono, and faaaabulous ohana. Go, read, enjoy ::shoos::

    ...and back to reality, I have managed to drop and completely destroy my phone (which, okay, was an iPhone 7S, so overdue for upgrade, but I *liked* that phone. And I had the best phone case, which they don't make for the new phone, sadface) *and* knock my (admittedly cheap chromebook) laptop off the deck and down a full story to the patio below, so I am not allowed any discretionary purchases for the rest of the summer. For awhile, I dealt with my old iPad and an equally old bluetooth keyboard (missing the 't' key cover, which makes for some weird contortions when writing) but I'm still working on taxes and trying to run dropbox and turbotax and excel off of the ipad was making me insane, so I went and got a cheap replacement at Costco. Yeah, so no extraneous purchases for me for the foreseeable future.

    Okay, and about The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, which for some reason is a huge favorite across the HoB (right up there with The Witcher and She-Ra, wtf?) cutting for spoilers through the end of S3 )

    I also finished Picard, which was perfectly fine for this part of my life (I'm saving all my Trek shrieking for the new Pike/Number One/Spock possibilities.) I think I'm onto Fleabag next. I keep circling around The Untamed, but given the number of people I've seen go down hard for that one, I'm a little nervous to start, like, I don't have time at the moment for getting sucked into something so totally overwhelming . I think one of the boys is giving it a try so we'll see what he thinks about wrt to me.

    The weather here is sort of cooperating with the traditional start-of-summer vibe Memorial Day is supposed to be, so I have ribs going low and slow on the grill. New recipe for the rub; I will report back. In other food news, I'm cooking my way through Chrissy Teigen's 2nd book and we're 6/6 on recipes now, with 5 of them being just outstanding. (So I guess I'm on that side of the AR/CT divide. Seriously, what the hell was AR thinking?) <--If that means nothing to you, just keep right on scrolling; it's not really worth the time if you're not on the periphery of food!twitter.

    argh, I just had to write that about the weather cooperating, because now it's raining and I have to go drag the smoker up under cover which means the whole house is going to smell like smoke, byeee!
    topaz119: Photo of Cpt Pike in Discovery uniform (discovery!pike)
    ::dashes in between meetings::

    YAYYYYY, they confirmed the Pike-Spock-Number One Trek spin-off, yay, yay, yayyyyy!

    https://youtu.be/OD6kUZwMOjQ

    It’s been a bitch of a week; I am possibly too emotionally invested in this, but yayyyyyy.
    topaz119: (Ravenclaw Inigo)
    Hi, hi, it's been forever!

    Mostly, that's been due to the job search ramping up in intensity and grinding to a happy ending of a new job in a new company with someone I've worked with (and loved working with) previously, \o/.

    But oy, what a month. I ended up interviewing with 9 different people across 4 different appointments for the new job, and then when I gave notice at the current job, they came back with a counter-offer, which entailed 3 more meetings with various people. The only reason I entertained the counter was because my current director has been an absolute rock star since D's stroke and he asked me if I would raise some of my reasons for leaving up the chain of command. It was, I think, the least I could do for him, but I am SO HAPPY that it's all done and I'm leaving at the end of next week.

    Also, in the middle of all this interviewing stuff, we had Covid-19 impacts to the current job because CurrentCompany has some large number of Chinese employees and multiple manufacturing facilities that were impacted by the quarantines, etc. I haven't done so many middle of the night calls in years. It totally fucked with my sleep, which is yet another reason I'm not sad to be moving on. The only thing that saved me is the Calm app on my phone, which has a daily Sleep Story--just someone reading some random thing in a super-soothing voice. I was extremely skeptical, but they consistently keep my brain out of its stress spirals and do it quickly enough that I don't even remember what the stories are because I'm snoring in no time.

    In books/tv/movies news, I finished watching The Witcher, which I enjoyed a lot more than I expected to. Part of that is because BabyBoy is a huge, huge fan and his enthusiasm and enjoyment was contagious, but also, I really had fun with HC and his very expressive uses of 'fuck'. The intertwined story timelines didn't bother me (though possibly that's because I had the encyclopedic knowledge of BabyBoy only a text away), and you know I'm always up for a good found family trope. So that was fun.

    I also zipped through Pandemic, Netflix's docu-series on, well, pandemics, and I have to say, it was really well done, especially given the timing. (Though, watching it as I sat on the subway every day got to be a little nerve-wracking, especially on days when I'd been on China-impact-assessment calls overnight. (My part in these calls is virtually nothing, but one of the teams I write for had major impacts to their delivery capacity so we were all there to understand the situation.)) I didn't find it to be unnecessarily alarmist or fear-mongering, but it is a scary topic, even without the events happening in real life. The people they profile are very inspiring, for the most part.

    On the book side, it's been a string of exceedingly escapist fiction, which I will try to get to next week for the Wednesday reading topic, but all the buzz about Andie Christopher's Not the Girl You Marry was spot-on, in my view, and I'm not normally one for contemporary romances.

    I have to laugh at all the articles about preparing for possible quarantines and how people are so worried about what you might do to keep yourself occupied if you can't go out. I mean, do they not know anyone with a serious TBR pile? Or a crafting addiction? I might grab a couple of extra pounds of butter tomorrow at the store, just in case we do get the work-from-home word and I suddenly have the time to go on a mad baking spree, but otherwise, I still remember with great fondness the snowstorm we had around 10 years ago, where the usual snow-removal strategy (wait for the sun to come out and it'll all melt) did not measure up for the actual snow that we got and we were home for a week. It. Was. Bliss. D was going bonkers in 2 days, but omg, I wallowed in it. I will definitely do my part to stop contagion vectors!

    In other news, BabyBoy was cast in a production of The Laramie Project, which is probably yet another show we will not mention to the conservative part of the family. I know they have to be thinking that he's just not very good because we keep skipping over things like the original Broadway staging of Hair or the corsets from Cabaret so all they know is that he played one of the flying monkeys from Oz. (Don't get me wrong--he loved being up on a wire, but yeah, it's not really much of a dramatic stretch.)

    Okay, I should go and take the berserker dog out for a walk, because it is actually not raining here for once (we've had more rain than Seatttle this year, ugh.)

    Have a good weekend!
    topaz119: (kaylee)
    Random things I’ve been talking about with the HoB:

    BabyBoy is so totally gone on The Witcher that I had to give it a try, and I’m liking it a lot more than I was expecting to. (I can slide by on a lot of your basic fantasy tropes, but I’m liking it way more than that. And I’m not a huge Henry Cavill fan—nothing bad against him, he just never pinged anything on my radar, but again, I’m really having fun with him and Geralt.) Of course, given that it’s BB I’m interacting with, and he’s the BFA Acting major, we discuss A LOT of the technical aspects of the show, like the fight choreography and how they’re editing the timelines together, etc, etc, but the one I thought was interesting was cutting for spoilers for the Striga episode ) I mean, that’s maybe a little deep for a show that doesn’t seem to be taking itself too seriously, but that’s where we got as we talked it through. It’s always fun picking things apart with him. (I mean, he gets into how the actors stand and how they move and talk and all, so sometimes we’re watching the same scene 5 times… Or, in the case of LOTR, 20…)

    Also, he is apparently a rabid Geralt/Yennefer shipper (when I asked how he'd gotten all the books, he gave me the Mom, you know better than to ask your GenZ kid that question look, so we'll just keep that from his former IP attorney father.) But yeah, he doesn't want to hear anything about anybody else with either of those two.

    #2Son is my Star Wars kid--OMG, we were giddy at Galaxy’s Edge, even after we’d been in line for nearly 2 hours for the Millennium Falcon ride (it was super-early in the morning and they were routing the line all through GE… we were in line for an hour before we came around a bend in the ‘street’ and lo, there was the Falcon in all her glory) but he’s my go-to for all the expanded universe easter eggs, like spoilers for the last episode of The Mandolorian )
    And of course, now there’s another season of Clone Wars coming and I sort of half-watched the ones that already exist, so I guess I’m going back to deal with that. My viewing time is so overbooked I can’t even.

    Also, while I appreciate how the Clone Wars really makes it clear that Padme and Anakin were never a good idea, I am once again annoyed that we didn’t really get the rush of a really good Bad-Idea-But-We-Can’t-Not romance, because Someone Who Shall Remain Nameless (but is bearded and Very Recognizable) can’t write romance worth sh*t. Like, seriously, give that story to Julie James or any one of a dozen writers who do really excellent competence porn and have them write the seeds of their own destruction!Anakin/Padmen. (or you know, please feel free to point me to your favorite fic that explores this very trope.)

    (Oh, and BabyBoy is *also* a die-hard Obi Wan/Satine shipper. DIE HARD. RABID. It's too funny.)

    Oldest is in one of his periodic attempts to get me more into the Vorkosigan books, which I agree, I should love, and have enjoyed the ones I’ve read/listened to, but I just haven’t gotten to them yet. I think my (admittedly, small) stumbling block is that while Miles is entertaining and all, I’m really all about Cordelia, but my completist brain can’t quite skip over all the many Miles-centric books to get to the good, later Cordelia-centric ones. Plus, I really, really wish the guy who does the audiobook narration didn’t sound like he was 40 years old, especially in the earlier Miles books when he’s, y’know, a teenager. We’ll continue to work on it now that we’ve gotten through all the Dresden books (though the next one is apparently on the way.)

    So, yeah, they still keep me busy, and that's not counting the ~15,000 hours of Critical Role they keep asking if I've seen. (I listen to it while I'm doing mindless cut/paste updates, but good lord, even starting with Campaign #2, I'll never get through it all.)
    topaz119: (happy endings)
    I’m still not finishing much reading-wise this fall. My brain is just not holding onto things, but I have a few bits and pieces this Wednesday.

    read/listen
    finished
    She Said, Jodi Kantor, Megan Twohey – I listened to the audiobook of this (because that’s what version came in first on my library hold list) and was pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to get through. Very compelling, though the last quarter/third dealt with the less triumphant Supreme Court nomination hearings and so were sobering.

    now
    I have the following books started:
  • The Rules of Magic, Alice Hoffman
  • Spindle Cove, Tessa Dare
  • Lionheart, Sharon Kay Penman (audio)
  • The Bride Test, Helen Hoang

    None of them are calling out to me at the moment, though all of them seem like things I’d like and have been perfectly pleasant as I started them. ::sighs::

    next
    I have the following stack out from the library, yet to be started:
  • Magic for Liars, Sarah Gailey
  • Meg, Jo, Beth, Amy : The Story of Little Women and Why It Still Matters, Anne Boyd Rioux
  • The Vanished Bride, Bella Ellis
  • The Proposal, Jasmine Guillory
  • The Antidote: Happiness For People Who Can't Stand Positive Thinking, Oliver Burkeman
  • The Inevitable: Understanding the 12 Technological Forces That Will Shape Our Future, Kevin Kelly
  • The Wedding Party, Jasmine Guillory
  • Heart of the Moors, Holly Black
  • Royal Holiday, Jasmine Guillory

    This does not count the half-dozen or so books I’ve snagged off of Amazon’s deal of the day or my Audible library that is spiraling out of control.

    If I had to guess, I’d say I’ll skip the Guillory backlist and go straight for Royal Holiday (we all know my Modern Royal love + holidays!) with a possible side trip to Holly Black’s Maleficent backstory in Heart of the Moors.

    But who knows, really.

    watch
    netflix
    I’m back on Hell On Wheels, which my brain is *loving* but which gives me nightmares sometimes for its period-appropriate blood/gore/dirt/attitudes. Like I told a friend, Cullen Bohannon is who Malcolm Reynolds thought he was but never quite got that far gone, and the writers thoroughly enjoy twisting that metaphorical knife they’ve got stuck in his guts. I can only take so much of this at a time, though. (If nobody is digging foreign objects out of the human body in any one episode, it’s because everyone is rolling around in the mud or stabbing someone or hanging someone or having PTSD flashbacks to same. There’s a fridged wife, but most of the female characters have agency and wants and needs and desires and work to find their own way in life. It’s enough to balance out for me now.)

    youtube
    I have this big copy/paste project going on at the office, so I knock off an hour a day and stream/listen to Critical Role while I do the mindless stuff. I just started Campaign 2; this might never end.
    I also watch a fair amount of the Disney Food Blog (her voice is suuuuper-soothing and she knows her WDW stuff, highly recommend)
    There’s also the Bon Appetit channel, which I’m finding very entertaining for commuting.

    I haven’t been to the movies in so long… maybe Spiderman: Far From Home….? I think I missed Hustlers in the theaters, but I’d love to see Last Christmas and Little Women and the Rise of Skywalker over the holidays.

    I’m doing fairly well on NaNo, which really sucks up all my spare time, so maybe by the end of the month I’ll shake a little time free…

    Have a good day/night!
  • topaz119: (path through the woods)
    ::waves furiously::

    OMG, NaNo. For the first time in the history of ever, I’m on track. I mean, yeah, it’s only 5 Nov, but still. I am AHEAD of the little dots on the chart. It’s very exciting. The only thing is that the Disco fic I’m almost finished with is at point where sh*t is getting real and everything has to align with what came before, and people are *finally* talking about FEEEEELings, which means I have to thiiiiiink about every word, which takes too much time. But yeah, on track so far, \o/.

    Also, I may have had too many diet cokes today (we have a lot of people in the office from the Bangalore team and we (the ATL office) are running around being hospitable and it is fun but omgexhausting), and my brain is spinnnnnning but nobody can tell, right?

    Let’s see, what else? Oh, I finally started watching Good Omens and while it’s been decades since I read the book (or perhaps *because* it’s been decades), I am vastly enjoying the Tennant/Sheen show. The rest is fine, but I feel this adaptation is perfectly encapsulated by Tennant sighing, “Get in the car, angel” as if that was the greatest insult Crowley can summon while being a patently obvious (to everyone except C/A) term of endearment. (Also, I think I forgot to mention how many genderswapped Crowley/Aziraphale cosplayers there were at DragonCon. I think I was 4 days in before I saw my first non-swapped pair. It was like Loki back in 2011/12—and really even now, as there were several *stunning* Lady Lokis in amazing gowns this year.)

    BabyBoy came home to see the high school’s fall one-act shows and hang with his most favorite director and now I feel like at some point I’m going to have to try to figure out how to stage a play they want to do. Again: kids—who knew my nerdy engineering self was going to have to be this into the theater world?

    Oh, also, I’ve been doing the box meal ingredient thing the last few months and I have codes for ppl to get a free weekly box (I think they 3 meals for 2 ppl or the equivalent amount off servings for 4) from Hello Fresh if you’d like to give them a try. I’ll set comments to screen if you want to leave me an email address to send the code to. (I’ve been working my way through all of the options, Blue Apron/HF/Sunbasket, but HF is the one that I can most consistently feed my (semi-picky) family.) Lemme know!
    topaz119: (path through the woods)
    books
    I haven’t been reading a lot since D’s stroke—just not a lot of brain power and my commute is very fractured atm, so I’m moving verrrry slowly through books I would ordinarily zoom through in a week of trains. But I did read Daisy Jones and The Six, which was fun, but ultimately sent me off to find the Fleetwood Mac Behind the Music (a two-parter, b/c they really were that much of a crazy mess, and I say that as someone who listened to Rumours on repeat for a solid year.)

    I also got my hands on Evvie Drake Starts Over, for which my tip for max enjoyment is to mentally cast Anna Kendrick as Evvie and Chris Evans as Dean and just go with it. I also thought I was going to have to yell about certain aspects of Evvie’s marriage being glossed over by the characters, but thankfully that got addressed.

    The prequel to Practical Magic (about the aunts, and presumably the mom) auto-downloaded from the library last night so I should probably get into that soon.

    tv
    I’ve been randomly going through my Netflix queue, with little rhyme or reason, so I’m halfway through John Favreau’s Chef (the series, not the movie, but hey, I’m here for Roy and John cooking through random restaurants and chefs and food people.) It’s not as soothing (or as gorgeous) as Samin Nosrat's Salt Fat Acid Heat, but it’s good for decompressing after work.

    I think I finally hit my limit on Once Upon a Time, though I’m still ff-ing to the Hook/Swan parts (I dunno, it’s a thing, lately.) Also, like I mentioned before, I zoomed through the first season of Hell On Wheels, and am now in a bit of a holding pattern b/c I’m not sure how you bring your characters back after you shove them off that metaphorical cliff, and boy, was there a cliff-shoving.

    In network tv news, I’ve caught a bit of Cobie Smulders’ Stumptown and like it well-enough (when the inevitable love triangle hits, I’m Team!MichaelEaly’s character all.the.way. I mean, the best friend is fine, but yeah, no, ME is fiiiiiiiiine.) #2Son & I are hoarding S4 of The Good Place until his break when we will nom it all in one glorious rush. I may check out the Nancy Drew adaptation, just because people are whinging about how dark it is and it Is Not For Them, kids these days, and whyyyyMillenialswhyyyy, which just punches all my contrarian buttons.

    movies
    I rewatched Practical Magic, basically to drool over the house (and a little over Aidan Quinn’s gorgeous eyes) and how I wiiiish that had been a better overall movie. The house is still amazing & I do love the aunts & their wardrobes. Actually, I love the sisters, too; I just wish for a better, more even tone.

    I also snagged Master of Dark Shadows from the library, and while it is nominally about Dan Curtis, the creator and exec producer (who went on to produce The Winds of War / War and Remembrance mini series, who knew?) it spends a lot of time on Dark Shadows itself, and very lovingly. And it loves the fans, too, which is always nice.

    What’s up with y’all?
    topaz119: (it was a dark and stormy night)
    The pleasant not-summer weather continued this weekend, yay. It rained today, but it's been so dry lately I can hardly make myself care.

    We went and did Top Golf last night with L & B & a couple of our collective kids. Mostly, this means I sit around and drink and eat cheese fries, while occasionally getting up and swinging a golf club, which is about enough sports for me. Also, the Braves collapsed in humiliating fashion; I am v. v. glad I did not spend money on tickets for that game. In TV-related news, I started watching Hell On Wheels Friday night and ended up getting through the first season today, which is, not something I really had time for, but whoa-mama are they working the morally-conflicted anti-hero main character and it comes gift-wrapped in tight jeans and boots and a lot of riding horses. My brain went ooooooooHELLOgooooorgeous and did not let go for hours at a time. (CW for blood and violence and language and blood and did I mention the period-appropriate (post US Civil War) medical procedures?)

    I've managed to keep writing this week, so once more with the Sunday Six. Same thing as last week (part of a sequel to the last thing I wrote, the Star Trek Discovery post-S2 Pike/Tyler, currently going by the working title of relationships are haaaard in space, subtitled chris pike brings teh draamaaa. Last week, I said it was little pieces that were somehow fitting together, but now I can see where I'm going back and forth between the current day of this story and how they got there from the previously posted story (which means I'm writing present and past tense, depending on where I am, and when I switch over it always takes two or three tries to get into the proper tense, so I apologize in advance for any wild flippings that have slipped through the cracks here.)

    This whole thing is just one giant H/C fluff fest )
    topaz119: (hanging on)
    D finished inpatient rehab last week; we had a couple of days off and then started outpatient therapy today. (If you missed my quick update, he had a stroke in June. All this therapy and rehab is of the physical/occupational/speech variety, not the mental health/self-medicating flavor.) Also, the new bed that was supposed to be delivered today arrived with only a mattress, no platform. Everyone is v. v. sorry, but … Back to the air mattress for me and the pullout couch for BabyBoy (D is sleeping on his bed.)

    I am ready for the ridiculousness to be done.

    Since I have spent a large number of hours in a big, green hospital chair next to D's bed this summer, I have accumulated a fair number of links to share.

  • From Kerastase, Eau de Vagues Beach Wave Spray - Between this and some overpriced purple shampoo (to make the silver pop) I have been having the best wash-and-wear hair of my life AND it lasts for two or three days (which never happens), which is fortunate as a few days into the stroke saga, the blessed dog took off after a cat and I did not drop the leash fast enough to keep from breaking the ring finger of my right hand, so holding a blow dryer has been problematic.

  • This is my Yay, I Am Not A Widow Retail Therapy bag (though I did not pay retail, as I have an annual pass discount and friends in Orlando to use it.)

  • I have no idea how many hours I've listened to soundscapes from MyNoise.net but it's definitely helped with my mental equilibrium.

  • Everyone here knows about my Navy pilot thing, yes? No one is going to be surprised that I watched the new Top Gun trailer a bazillion times, right? Alternately, wow, that Cats trailer did bad bad things to my brain. YMMV.

  • For all my popslash girls--seahorses!

  • At some point, I literally googled 'soothing streaming tv' and this list is the one I ended up bookmarking b/c it wasn't just landscapes or fireplaces: The 10 Most Soothing Documentaries on Netflix.

    Byeeeee, and we'll see if I can make it back on Weds with coherent thoughts about the books I've been glomming to keep the bad voices in my brain quiet
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